You are beautiful, both inside and out. Don't let the media, or anyone else, tell you that you're not.
You are talented. Just because you aren't where you want to be yet doesn't mean that you won't get there.
You are loved. Your family and friends love you as much, if not more, than any partner may do.
You are kind. Don't allow your confidence to be broken by others perceptions of you. Their actions speak more of them than they do of you.
You are desirable. Someone may not be knocking down your door right now but you don't know who will appear tomorrow.
You are courageous. You may be waking up to a world that wants to bring you down. Yet every day you face it with courage and dignity. That takes more strength than you can possibly imagine.
You are not a failure. So you're angry/hurt/sad? This will pass. It's what you allow it to do to you that matters. Don't dwell on it; you're human and have emotions. But move on from it.
You are an inspiration. People will look up to you for many reasons but they may never tell you. Praise the people who inspire you.
You make the world a better place just by being in it. Keep loving and living because your life, and your spirit, are needed.
You are amazing. Never forget that.