There are
some periods in our life when we find ourselves alone. We may still
be surrounded by family and friends but these people not understand
the journey you're taking. The path you're walking may be one
relating to your career, relationships, or another aspect of your
life. You may not want others to know what you're working through or
they may not want to know. It's a hard choice between living a life
that seems normal and following what's going on in your heart.
Taking a
life journey by yourself can be one of the most daunting things.
You're alone with no one to talk it and the only company is yourself.
It's not a straight road, either, and one that is often fraught with
sharp turns and shadowy embankments. You don't know what you're going
to find around the next corner and your drive to find out won't allow
you to stop.
But it's the
loneliness that can become crippling. Everyone needs someone to talk
to, to explain what they're doing and to find reassurance for their
actions. The longest, loneliest road often doesn't have these people
and the person taking this journey can find themselves isolated and
depressed. They want to talk. They want to share what they've seen
and what they've found. Yet, all too often, the understanding souls
they can talk to just aren't there.
The creative
arts are like this and I've known many people who've stood on this
road and asked themselves what they're doing. They've debated turning
back and giving up because they can't abide the darkness that
consumes them. They hate being alone and want someone to share the
joy of the journey with.
I'm going
through this at the moment. While I watch my friends and family
prepare for huge, life changing events I find myself sitting here
with piles of paperwork as I try and get my latest project off the
ground. There's no promise that it will work but I can't sit back and
think “what if?”. I'm driven to do it and only I can put in the
work that will make it come to life. The risk and the not knowing is
part of this journey that so many people take. Yet, along the way, I
can't help but feel the pangs of loneliness as I watch people I know
gather, laugh and celebrate.
Yet I've
also seen so many people who've reached the end of the road and found
amazing things at the end. Much like the proverbial pot at the end of
the rainbow, they've hit the jackpot in more ways than they can
imagine.
The journey
may be long and it may be hard. It may seem to be fraught with danger
and darkness. But good things can only come from it. Never give up
and know that you're never alone.